CoffeeChat 47 – Fan into Flame

Edition  47

Fan into Flame

Last Edition Recap
How have you applied the last edition to your life?
Opening Prayer
Gracious Lord, all good things come from You; You always make sure we have good things from You. Sometimes we deny them by thinking we know better, or we are too lazy to develop Your gifts. Help us. Amen.
Introduction
Every great fire starts with the smallest flame—even a spark. Snuff it out before it grows, no raging fire. But fuel it, fan it, and that small flame becomes a powerful blaze. “Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark” (James 3:5). Which has greater influence—a flickering candle or a roaring bonfire? The bonfire, obviously. Yet both started the same way. The difference? One was fanned into flame. We live in an age of entitlement—”the fact of having a right to something.” We want the best without working for it, deserving it, earning it. We expect spiritual growth without spiritual discipline, maturity without effort, power without practice. We treat God’s gifts like automatic upgrades rather than seeds requiring cultivation. Paul writes to Timothy: “Fan into flame the gift of God.” Not “wait for spontaneous combustion.” Not “hope it ignites itself.” Fan. Into. Flame. Active verb. Intentional effort. Deliberate development. The Spirit God gave doesn’t make us timid but gives us power, love, and self-discipline. Notice: gives us, not does it for us. The gift is given; the fanning is our responsibility. Too many Christians sit with cold embers wondering why they have no fire, holding unlit matches complaining about the darkness, carrying dormant gifts expecting automatic activation. Entitlement says, “God owes me a bonfire.” Faith says, “God gave me a spark—now I’ll fan it.”
Chat Point 1
  1. Which flame has greater influence: small flame or bonfire, and why?
  2. How does the spark-to-forest-fire concept relate to our spiritual lives?
  3. Have you experienced unfounded attitudes of entitlement—what are your thoughts?
  4. What are possible reasons people feel entitled to spiritual growth without effort?
  5. Should people work for what’s best or feel entitled to receiving only the best?
Read
2 Timothy 1:1-14, 2 Peter 3:14-18
Key Focus
2 Timothy 1:6-7 – “For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”
Chat Point 2
  1. What stood out about Paul reminding Timothy to “fan into flame” rather than just use the gift?
  2. Do power, love, and self-discipline happen automatically without commitment—why not?
  3. How do we have unfounded entitlement attitudes regarding the Gospel of Jesus Christ?
  4. What’s the instruction in both passages regarding spiritual wellbeing, and why?
  5. What happens if we don’t adhere to these instructions to fan and grow?
Final Thought
Think of a raging fire. Why does God want us to “fan into flame” and “grow in grace and knowledge”? Because sparks die without attention. Gifts atrophy without use. Faith fades without feeding. Jesus said, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). Not “hide your barely flickering ember.” Shine. Blaze. Illuminate. The tragedy isn’t that God gives small gifts—He doesn’t. The tragedy is we leave them small. We have the Spirit of power, love, and self-discipline, yet live timid, cold, and chaotic. We have divine fire within yet produce barely a spark without. Do you believe God owes you something? When you reflect on your commitment to God, does He see someone negatively entitled or someone who fans into flame and grows in grace? The entitled expect the gift to self-develop, auto-mature, spontaneously combust into greatness. They wait for God to do what He’s already empowered them to do. Meanwhile, their gift smoulders, barely alive, producing neither heat nor light. But those who fan? They turn sparks into flames, flames into fires, fires into movements that set forests ablaze for God’s glory. The gift is given. The Spirit is present. The power is available. The question isn’t what God will do—He’s already done it. The question is whether you’ll fan or let it fade.
My Action
What key insight or learning from this session resonates most with me, and what do I sense God is inviting me to do in response?
Shared Prayer
What are your prayer requests?​
Closing Prayer
Lord, Your grace and mercy we don’t deserve but You’ve given in love; You owe us nothing, we owe You everything. Help us fan Your gifts into flame. Amen.
In-Between Chats: Personal Reflection
  1. Do you believe God owes you something, or do you owe Him everything?
  2. Does God see you as someone negatively entitled or someone who “fans into flame” and “grows in grace and knowledge”?
  3. What practical steps will you take this week to fan your spiritual gifts into greater flame?
Edition Writer: Rev Kevin Zondagh

Methodist Minister, Personal Development Specialist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach and Executive Coach. Founder and Owner of Exemplar Coaching Pty Ltd and CoffeeChatConnect. "We should have the desire to custom design the only life we have. After-all, we buy designer everything. How much more should we Live by Design, not by default?"